Cross Culture… How to Find Your Purpose

One the most frequently asked questions of Melissa and I is how do I find my purpose? It’s often worded in different ways, but the crux of the question is always the same. How do I find out what I am supposed to do or be doing? The answer, well, I wish it were as simple as me telling you exactly what it is that you are supposed to be doing. 

Let me tell you of my experience. I grew up in church but we didn’t have the all the teams, kids ministries and youth ministries that most larger churches have. We had ushers, but they were the older gentleman in the church, andwe had a Pastor! Other than that, one of the only other opportunities was to be a musician.  So, I picked up playing the guitar. Essentially, I just picked up a guitar. Playing it? Well, that is highly questionable! Nevertheless, I wanted to play the guitar because I wanted to be involved and I wanted to make a difference. After a few years of that, my church started a puppet ministry! I got involved, but I wasn’t even qualified to be a puppeteer. No, I got to be the background scene changer extraordinaire. Ok, so I was the guy who changed the background out after each song. Nonetheless, I was involved. It wasn’t fancy, but it was what I could do. 

Who would have ever thought that being the background changer would lead to being the Senior Pastor of Southern Illinois Worship Center? God! Let me briefly show you the path. It’s a cold fall night in Northern Indiana… oops, I did say briefly. Okay, back to the story! One night, we had a power failure during the puppet show and somebody needed to stall the service so we could reset the power. I got the summons to head out front, and stall. Called from the backstage of the puppet ministry to right out in front of the crowd. The pastor of the church where we were putting on the show, watched as I stalled the crowd for the power reset. In that moment, God opened a door for me. A little over a year later, I was the new youth pastor at that church. 

While at that church I met Melissa, who was friends with the pastors son and daughter in-law. Melissa and I married and I moved to Portland, Indiana where my new in-laws pastored a church. I joined the ministry staff there. At that place, I served in numerous areas including Children’s ministry, youth ministry, jail ministry, nursing home ministry, vacation bible school, and then we began a ministry of serving the city. I lead and served in every ministry that I could. 

All that time I was serving in the church, God was training and preparing me! Not only at the church, but also at the company I worked for. Every opportunity that my company presented, I took it. Some were fun, some were miserable, some I loved, and some I couldn’t wait to love something else. It was the same thing in the church! Every opportunity that came, I took it! Some I loved, some not so much. The opportunities I loved, I stayed with! The opportunities I didn’t love, I found somebody else to love it because there is always someone that loves what you don’t. That allowed me to spend more time on what I did love and have a passion for. 

In other words, I served until I found where I actually belonged. I wouldn’t have known what I liked or didn’t like, unless I had at least tried it. From those experiences, God was preparing me for the place I am now. I can tell you I served my way into being Senior Pastor. 

The area where I serve today, touched every area that I served in earlier in my life. I absolutely believe that had I turned down being the background changer for the puppet ministry, I wouldn’t be where I am today. That began the proverbial domino effect in my life. Each time I would serve God opened another door, and each door was one step closer to the ultimate purpose God had for my life. 

If you want to find your purpose, serve your way into it! The bible says whatever you are doing, you should do it as unto the Lord! When you serve like that, God will properly position youto fulfill the purpose He has for you. 

No doubt, like me, you’ll have some serving places you love and some not so much. The ones you love are an indicator that you are in your purpose spot. Serve there with all your heart. You will find fulfillment when you serve in your purpose. Serve until you find your purpose and once you find it, you won’t call it serving anymore! You’ll call it living! 


Psalm 16:11 “You will show me the way of life, granting me the joy of your presence and the pleasures of living with you forever.”

Jeremiah 29:11 “‘I know the plans I have for you,’ says the Lord. ‘They are plans for good and not for disaster, to give you a future and a hope.’”

Ephesians 2:10 “For we are God’s masterpiece. He has created us anew in Christ Jesus, so we can do the good things he planned for us long ago.”

Ephesians 3:20 “Now all glory to God, who is able, through his mighty power at work within us, to accomplish infinitely more than we might ask or think.”

Philippians 2:13 “For God is working in you, giving you the desire and the power to do what pleases him.”

Romans 8:28 “We know that God causes everything to work together for the good of those who love God and are called according to his purpose for them.”

John 10:10 “The thief’s purpose is to steal and kill and destroy. My purpose is to give them a rich and satisfying life.”


Cross Culture… Find Your Purpose

Over the last few days, I’ve been sharing with you that we are a church that is on purpose across the aisle, across the street and around the world. The statement is true, but the church isn’t a building. It isn’t Southern Illinois Worship Center, it’s you and it’s me. We are the church! If the church is going to be a place that is on purpose, then we must be on purpose. In order for that to happen, we must first know our own purpose.

If you don’t know who you are or what you were born to do, you will always live in limbo, frustrated, and even depressed. In the back of your mind, there will always be questions of what if? The I could’ve, I should’ve or I would’ve, are the statements of people that don’t know,or won’t go, after the purpose of and for their life. 

Mark Twain stated, “The two most important days in your life are the day you were born, and the day you find out why.” While Mr. Twain was speaking in the natural, the same is true in the spiritual. The two greatest days in your life is the day you are born into the Kingdom, and the day you discover your purpose in the Kingdom! 

When Pilate asked Jesus, If He was a king

John 18:37 (ESV)

Then Pilate said to him, “So you are a king?” Jesus answered, “You say that I am a king. For this purpose I was born and for this purpose I have come into the world—to bear witness to the truth. Everyone who is of the truth listens to my voice.”

I was born and for this purpose I have come into the world. 

Now literally everywhere Jesus went and spoke about His purpose, people struggled to see that Jesus was the one! He was the one to change the very nature of mankind.They struggled to see that Jesus was the Messiah. His purpose boggled the mind of those who were around them. Could it be they couldn’t see the forest for the trees? 

There was one moment when Jesus was speaking that he laid out some serious truths! Just in this little stretch of ministry, Jesus lays out the parable of the sower, the parable of the wheat and the tares, the parable of the mustard seed, the parable of the leaven, the parable of the hidden treasure, the parable of the pearl of great price, and the parable of the dragnet. 

After He speaks all that truth, He leaves that place and comes back into His own country, his hometown.He taught them in their synagogue so that they were astonished and asked, Where did this man get this wisdom and these mighty works? 

Jesus is walking out His purpose, but they cannot overcome their view of the person to see the purpose.

Here comes the doubt, the familiarity, the disbelief. Mark wrote about this same incident and stated that Jesus could not do any mighty works for their disbelief. 

Here is Jesus, from their own hometown! He was born to be the change they had prayed for, but because of familiarity they missed out on the benefits of His purpose. 

I wonder how many people have been praying for an answer, a change, or a blessing, but when it comes we turn it away because of the package, the vessel, or the person that God used! 

Just maybe you have rejected the answer or the purpose because it included you. 

You have become so dissatisfied, disgusted, or disenfranchised with yourself that you reject the notion that you can be the change others and yourself have been praying for. 

Many will forfeit the real destiny over their lives because they reject that they are the one. Not only do we forfeit our purpose because of self-rejection, but others will reject us as well. So, we stop doing or we never start our purpose because of what others, mainly those who are close to us, say or what we perceive they will say. 

Our example is Jesus! He knew His purpose, He fulfilled His purpose, and He handled those who rejected Him. Not all people are like Jesus when it comes handling rejection. He fulfilled His purpose regardless of their rejection. Look at the powerful response that Jesus gave to those that were in His hometown and rejected Him. He stated that a prophet is not without honor except in His own country. (Matthew 13:57)

We should keep in mind that we are human and when we reject or criticize, or make fun of people because they are launching out into their purpose, the impact of that rejection can often be too much to overcome. And what happens is people with purpose then sit on the sidelines and never fulfill what they were born to do. 

Can you imagine if the rejection that Jesus suffered in His hometown had derailed His purpose? This happens more often than we care to admit when people are trying to find their purpose. They either reject themselves or others reject them, and then the church is robbed of the benefits of their purpose. The world is robbed of their purpose. Can you imagine what the world would be like if you found your purpose and then fulfilled it? But maybe you’re the one asking, how do I find my purpose? We tackle that question next!

We are a Church on Purpose… Around the World

Acts 1:8… But you will receive power when the Holy Spirit comes on you; and you will be my witnesses in Jerusalem, and in all Judea and Samaria, and to the ends of the earth.” 

In this text in Acts, we see the clarion call of Jesus to be witnesses of Him in three areas: first Jerusalem, then Judea and Samaria and then to ends of the earth. You could take that as Jesus giving a mandate to spread the Gospel locally, nationally and then internationally. We take that verse and describe it like this: We need to be a witness to those who are across the aisle, across the street and around the world. 

From the beginning of our pastorate at SIWC we wanted to be a church that wasn’t internally focused only, but also one that was externally focused. The Father’s business is one of growth. Growth comes through witnesses who have received the power of the Holy Spirit, traveling purposefully to the areas where hungry people are waiting. 

For too long the church has been satisfied with shining our light into places that are already lit up with the Gospel. The purpose of the church and the reason you have the power of the Holy Spirit, is to take your light and spread it into the dark places. Light stands out much better in the darkness. More people can see the light in dark places than when it is just blending in with other light. 

We have the power in us to fulfill this mandate of Jesus. Don’t be afraid of dark places, for you are the light of the world. When light comes in, it dispels the darkness and all that it represents. The reason the world is so dark is that all those who have light are huddled within the four walls of the church. When we break out of the church, we will break the stronghold of darkness!When we decide to be on purpose across the aisle, across the street and around the world, the world will be a brighter place. 

Spreading light into the darkest of places takes a purposeful mindset. This task, at times, can seem daunting and the needs endless. Often, people disqualify themselves out of missional work for a lack of experience!  The mandate Jesus gave us, was to share our experience with Him, to others. That’s the simplicity of the mandate, witness! A witness simply tells others what they saw, heard, felt and touched. If you have an experience with Jesus, then you can be a witness. Whether you witness locally, nationally, or internationally, you are fulfilling the mandate given to us. 

In 2019, there will be opportunities for you to head out and be the light! That’s the sign you were waiting on! Now you must do it, and do it on purpose. 



We are a Church on Purpose…Across the Street

Our purpose, beyond reaching across the aisle, is to reach across the street and then around the world. Look at the places in which Jesus commanded for there to be evangelism.

But you will receive power when the Holy Spirit comes upon you. And you will be my witnesses, telling people about me everywhere—in Jerusalem, throughout Judea, in Samaria, and to the ends of the earth.” 

First, Jerusalem! Jerusalem was their hometown. It’s where they were, it was local. We are to reach those that are in our home, in our hometown, across the street from where we are. Secondly, Jesus said in all of Judea. Get beyond just your street, your clique, your people or your tribe. I love that Jesus included Samaria in this command. We are often comfortable reaching to people who are like us. Jesus said and in Samaria. Samaria was the place that no one accepted. Jesus said we should reach to those that no one else will reach for. Reach for those in Samaria, there is a great harvest there. The fields are white; however, those willing to reach into the Samaria’s are few. 

That’s why the harvest is so bountiful. No one else will reach into the uncomfortable places to bring them a comforting word from Jesus. Often, some of the comforting words to those that are in “Samaria” aren’t words, they are actions. For many who find themselves in “Samaria”, they cannot hear our words over the grumbling of their stomach. Often the bread of Life served in the areas across the street is not symbolic bread, but literal bread. I am reminded of the words of Jesus, when He spoke about those that fed and watered those in need…

34 “Then the King will say to those on his right, ‘Come, you who are blessed by my Father, inherit the Kingdom prepared for you from the creation of the world. 35 For I was hungry, and you fed me. I was thirsty, and you gave me a drink. I was a stranger, and you invited me into your home. 36 I was naked, and you gave me clothing. I was sick, and you cared for me. I was in prison, and you visited me.’ 

37 “Then these righteous ones will reply, ‘Lord, when did we ever see you hungry and feed you? Or thirsty and give you something to drink? 38 Or a stranger and show you hospitality? Or naked and give you clothing? 39 When did we ever see you sick or in prison and visit you?’ 

40 “And the King will say, ‘I tell you the truth, when you did it to one of the least of these my brothers and sisters, you were doing it to me!

It isn’t easy to reach into uncomfortable places! It must be done on purpose, with a purpose, and for a purpose.

We must intentionally reach across the streets to fulfill the word and will of God for those who are across the street. We mustbring the light of Jesus into and onto their street. 

That’s what our Love Goes ministry is all about, being purposeful about those who are across the street. Today I am asking you to pray for our Love Goes ministry. Consider partnering with us to help go across the street. Our mission is to reach, teach and equip people with the Gospel of Jesus Christ and Love Goes helps us to REACH those in need! Take a moment and pray for restoration to come to every life that we touch through our Love Goes ministry!

We are Church on Purpose… Across the Aisle

Every successful organization and business has a purpose for which they exist. The purpose of the Pepsi plant is to produce Pepsi, Mountain Dew,  and Diet Pepsi. If they suddenly decided to make their main purpose teaching golf lessons instead of making Pepsi, they would soon go out of business. The purpose of our hospitals is to provide health care. How long would they stay in business if they changed their purpose to dry cleaning? Now, there’s nothing wrong with golf lessons or dry cleaning, those are good things to do, but those things can’t become the primary focus of those organizations.

Our church has a purpose statement. There are hundreds of things a church could do that are good things, but a clearly defined purpose statement keeps us focused

on the best things we can do. Southern Illinois Worship Center purpose is to reach, teach, and equip people with the Gospel of Jesus Christ. 


Those people that we are to reach, teach, and equip are in three different directions: across the aisle; across the street; and around the world. We have to reach out on purpose in all three of those directions. 


There isn’t anything in this life that has value, deals with your destiny, or the kingdom of God that can be done on accident. It has to be done on purpose. You have to purposefully look across the aisle, literally look across the aisle at the people who gather to worship with you. We can go through our routine and forget that the people that sit across the aisle from us; have hurts, sorrow, pain, and grief. Those people, also have points of joy and victory as well. The question is do you genuinely care about the person across the aisle from you? Have reached out to them? 

Do you want to know them and to know about them? Or are you content to just see them each week and smile and shake their hands during our meet and greet time? I believe we can become more intentional (do it on purpose) in reaching across the aisle to love and connect with one another. 

The Apostle John wrote a magnificent letter, in this letter he hasa lot to say about loving one another. Many people call I Corinthians 13 the love chapter, “love” is found eight times in 1 Corinthians 13, but I John 4 should have the designation of the love chapter.  “Love” is used 27 times in 1 John 4. In reading this letter, think about how this relates to being on purpose across the aisle with those that gather with you. 


I John 4:7-12; 18-21:

Dear friends, let us continue to love one another, for love comes from God. Anyone who loves is a child of God and knows God. But anyone who does not love does not know God, for God is love. 

God showed how much he loved us by sending his one and only Son into the world so that we might have eternal life through him. 10 This is real love—not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as a sacrifice to take away our sins. 

11 Dear friends, since God loved us that much, we surely ought to love each other. 12 No one has ever seen God. But if we love each other, God lives in us, and his love is brought to full expression in us. 

18 Such love has no fear, because perfect love expels all fear. If we are afraid, it is for fear of punishment, and this shows that we have not fully experienced his perfect love. 19 We love each other because he loved us first. 

20 If someone says, “I love God,” but hates a fellow believer, that person is a liar; for if we don’t love people we can see, how can we love God, whom we cannot see? 21 And he has given us this command: Those who love God must also love their fellow believers. 


We must purpose in our hearts to reach out to the people across the aisle, on purpose. The issue of our day, in all of our technology, we are more connected than ever before, but we also live in isolation. Be on purpose about getting connected to real people.  Reach across that aisle! 

The crux of Christianity is that the last words of Jesus should be our first priority. Jesus said go into all the world (Matthew 28:19). Further He instructed them in Acts 1:8 that they “will” be witnesses of Him, in Jerusalem, Judea, Samaria, and to the ends of the earth! 


Take some time over the next 21 days and purposefully connect with those that are across the Aisle, go to them, then go and fellowship with them! Do it on purpose! 




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