Welcome to the Verbs


One of the most disheartening events that can happen to you is when your leader, the one you have entrusted has a moral failure. I have personally experienced such an event in my life. I trusted, followed, and served only to be shocked, saddened, and left questioning even my own faith over the matter. It is through the darkest hours of our lives, that often produces the most valuable of experiences and richness of our walk with God. You were not the first person to experience the sting of failure nor will you be the last. As far back as mankind can go, there was failure and that failure affected the future generations.

In 2 Samuel 11, we find the beginning of such a failure on the part of King David. David and Bathsheba’s relationship began in failure, but out of it a son was produced. His name was Solomon. Solomon was known as the wisest man that ever lived. Over Solomon’s forty year reign, he collected wise sayings. No doubt there were many more than what has been recorded. Many of them were recorded in a book in the Old Testament titled Proverbs.

Proverbs has become a great tool to live, guide, and instruct from. In the book of Proverbs, Solomon addresses many of the issues that were faced back in 900 BC, yet because man doesn’t really change all that much, we still face the same issues, today! Solomon addresses our intimate lives, anger, slander, business ethics, integrity, intoxication, pride, and he even dives into the topic of finances.

Proverbs literally means in the Hebrew, “to rule or to govern.” In other words reading the proverbs and then allowing them to guide your life is what is supposed to happen.

Over the next thirty-one days, we are going to highlight some of the most enlightening, challenging, and impactful Verbsout of the book of Proverbs. In other words we are going to find some words that will challenge us to make a change, keep the change, and be the change.

The wonderful thing about Proverbs is there are thirty-one chapters, one for every day of the month. Billy Graham said that he read five Psalms a day, “that teaches me how to get along with God, followed by a chapter of Proverbs, which teaches me to get along with my fellow man.”

So, welcome to the Verbs!

So many people think that church going, Bible reading and preaching are mostly about getting into heaven, getting yourself right with God, and making sure your soul is saved. Absolutely the Bible, church, and preaching is about that, but equally important as getting into heaven is how to live on Earth. Remember, when you get saved you don’t immediately get to go into Heaven. You stay here on earth. Therefore we need to know how to live here. Remember that Jesus said, “on earth as it is in heaven.” Our life here matters.

Proverbs is a path in teaching us how to have wisdom in living life here on earth. Living with each other, honoring our parents, raising up our children, handling our money, and how we are to conduct ourselves. Proverbs gives us wisdom to live by. In matters of living our day-to-day lives, nothing takes the precedence of involving God, listening to God, and obeying God.

Have a Happy New Year and may you make this the best year you’ve ever had!

Pastor J


The Verbs #1 – Start with God


Start with God




One of the hardest things in life isn’t finishing. Most often the hardest thing to do is to begin.

Solomon starts the book of Proverbs by telling exactly where to begin. You have to start with God.


“Start with God—the first step in learning is bowing down to God; only fools thumb their noses at such wisdom and learning.” – Proverbs 1:7 (The Message)


The first step, the very beginning of all of our plans, dreams, and this life, must begin with God. We have been trained to trust in ourselves, to lean on our own understanding; to trust ourselves more than anyone else. In other words, we have been told to start with ourselves. In actuality it is when we come to the end of ourselves that we begin with God. It is when we start with God that real life begins. Solomon tells us that the first step in learning is bowing down to God.


The act of starting with God in everything that we do is the foundation upon which you can build your life. However, it isn’t just a one-time event. Starting with God is something that we should do every day.


There isn’t an aspect of our lives that should not begin with God. Our marriages should begin with God. We stand before Him and utter vows, that if God would help us, we would keep those vows. We dedicate our kids back to God. We start their lives off by consecrating them back to God.


Solomon was teaching a wise lesson because, not only is it good to start with God, God wants us to begin with Him. Starting with God in everything is vital to living a blessed life.


What do you think would happen if you started giving God the first hour of your day, the first day of your week, and the first dime of every dollar? I lost so many of you right there, what an hour, a day, a dime… yep, that’s exactly what I said. Your day needs to start with God. One man said that we should never see the face of man until we have seen the face of God. Starting our day with God sets the tone for the rest of the day.


No doubt you are aware of the Ten Commandments? In those Ten Commandments, nine of them get straight to the point, no fluff, Thou Shalt not kill. Pretty much sums it up and we all agree with it. That’s pretty much how they all go; four to ten words, and obey. However, God gives a ninety-four word instruction on keeping the first day of the week, holy. Why, so many words? It was important. It was the fourth command, “Keep the first day of the week set apart for MeMake sure you start with Me.”


Bill Gates, the founder of Microsoft stated that, “in terms of allocation of time resources, religion is not very efficient… there is a lot more that I could be doing on a Sunday morning.”


God sees it far differently. As a matter of truth, He had Isaiah write it down for us just to be clear that we should start with Him.


“If you watch your step on the Sabbath and don’t use my holy day for personal advantage, If you treat the sabbath as a day of joy, God’s holy day as a celebration, If you honor it by refusing ‘business as usual,’ making money, running here and there—Then you’ll be free to enjoy God! Oh, I’ll make you ride high and soar above it all.
I’ll make you feast on the inheritance of your ancestor Jacob.” Yes! God says so! – Isaiah 58:12-14 (The Message)

Lastly, we should ensure that our money starts with God; the first dime of every dollar.


“Honor God with everything you own; give him the first and the best. Your barns will burst, your wine vats will brim over.” – Proverbs 3:8-10 (The Message)

Many people want to start giving to God after they have enough. You will never have enough unless you start with God. I learned early on to start with God when it came to my finances. The more I started with God, the more I had when it was finished.


When will you start with God, once you start it’s hard to quit, because the blessings begin when you start.


If not now, when? Sometimes the hardest thing to do is start.